Menstruation is a universal experience for women, yet each journey is uniquely personal. From unexpected beginnings to cultural norms, three women from different parts of India share their first encounters with menstruation, shedding light on the myriad emotions and societal nuances that accompany this pivotal life event.

A Personal Journey into Womanhood – My First Period Story

As I look back to my childhood, I recall the mysterious white, square-shaped clothes my mom used to wash every month. Little did I know, these clothes were my first indirect encounter with menstruation. My real introduction came when I moved into a PG at the tender age of eleven and witnessed a friend undergo what was then a bewildering ordeal. The term ‘period’ was explained to me in a comforting tone by a senior, yet with a stigma attached — the clothes were “dirty” and not to be touched.

In sixth grade, our teacher Sarita Ma’am, during a classroom discussion at our all-girls school, posed a question: “Why do you think we have periods?” The naive yet candid replies ranged from “to clean the stomach” to the impactful truth she shared, “We are ready to become mothers.” This moment was a significant pivot in my understanding of my own body.

My actual experience came in the ninth grade. Despite knowing about sanitary pads, I amusingly stuck one on the wrong way — treating it like a bandage over a wound. It took a gentle correction from my aunt for me to realise my mistake. Recently, my exploration led me to try menstrual cups, which initially puzzled me about their use during urination — a funny yet enlightening experience about my own body misconceptions.

Rishika Raguwanshi’s Emotional Rollercoaster

For Rishika Raguwanshi from Bhopal, her first period was a concoction of relief, confusion, and a dash of excitement about stepping into a new phase of life. The red stains on her underwear brought a barrage of questions — from how to inform her mother to what this meant for her future. Bravely, she approached her mother, who embraced her with warmth and reassurance, explaining the intricacies of using pads and answering all the swirling questions in her young mind.

As she shared her news with friends, she found unexpected support and stories echoing her experience, creating a bond and a community of shared paths into womanhood. Rishika now views her period not just as a biological process but as a rite of passage that brought her pride, strength, and a profound connection with her peers.

Sahanubhuti Krishnan’s Summer Surprise

Sahanubhuti Krishnan from Patna had her unexpected introduction to menstruation during a lazy summer afternoon at home, while peeling a papaya. The sight of blood stains on her pants sent her into a panic, despite prior knowledge from her mother about periods. Her mother’s quick response with sanitary napkins and advice to change discreetly underscored the onset of this new chapter, marked with cultural taboos and personal challenges.

The following days introduced Sahanubhuti to bizarre restrictions — from not washing her hair to abstaining from religious practices during her period. These cultural impositions brought a mix of confusion and a silent resolve to understand and navigate the complexities of these traditions linked with menstruation.

In sharing these stories, we aim not just to inform but to connect and empower others facing similar paths, fostering a dialogue that breaks down stigmas, period poverty and celebrates the natural and beautiful transition into womanhood. Let’s embrace this journey and support one another.